Ted, I agree with Frank. A picture always helps!!! Another thing that I do is use a nylon wire tie to secure a set of wires as they come off a battery terminal. I then mark which terminal they came from.
So I am guessing that you have wires coming in from the converter, and from the truck, each with power and a ground. If you can't figure it out, one way of troubleshooting would be to 1) take a photo of the current state, 2) disconnect the wires, 3) get a multimeter and check for ground, although if a relay is involved you may not be able to get to ground, 4) using the multi meter, find the 12vdc line with the truck running, then find the 12vdc line with the converter on, truck off, 5) the remaining two wires should be your ground circuits.
Be cautious!!! 12vdc can be hard on wires if you get it straight to ground. Don't let any of the wires touch (ground) when you're doing this. There is nothing worse than smelling burning insulation.
edit: Thinking about this a bit more... I watched when Kirk from FWC installed our truck wiring. The romex type wire is what FWC runs from the battery back to the camper. It should go to a battery separator relay, the relay should then send power to the battery. It keeps the camper from running down the truck battery. With the truck running, you should have power to it, and to the best of my knowledge, power coming out of it down to the battery. In our camper, the relay is in the battery box area under the hood.