Battery Gauge
Bottom line, get a $10 digital voltmeter from Radio Shack, print out a battery charge voltage chart, and make your own measurements (the 12V outlet is a lot easier to get to than the battery).
The gauge is almost for sure just a simple voltage divider network. I checked my gauge when I was having problems with the Optima and found that the Fair LED comes on at about 12.1V, which is about 40% of full charge. The alternator puts out over 14V and by the time the juice reaches the battery, you will find it is between 13.5V and 14V, so the Charge LED comes on a bit above 13V. There are a number of sites that have battery charge tables (
http://www.e-marine-inc.com/articles/battery_charging.html has a lead-acid table, which should be similar to the Optima). To measure voltage, turn off all 12V appliances and lights (the gas monitors probably won't make much of a difference). Also, the voltage will be a bit higher just after charging, so run some appliances for 10 or so minutes before making a reading.
The Optima actually failed, but the effort to get a warranty replacement was so onerous that we just ditched it (recycling center) an bought a higher rated Interstate (which I think FWC now uses).
Some other tips. You want to avoid completely discharging even a deep-cycle battery (that happened inadvertently to our Optima, which killed it). Also, if the battery is very low, the battery separator switch may not engage the alternator to recharge it. You can use a jumper to override the switch or use shore power to recharge.