To CWD, Vic and others who might be watching this very old post.
With COVID time available, and finally healed from various medical issues, I strung a #4 stranded wire from truck battery to an Anderson terminal in the bed, passing through a 100 amp breaker mounted on the truck firewall. I strung another #4 wire from Anderson terminal into house battery and Blue Sea Relay model 7610. I discarded the original #10 wire and connector. I do use a small cooling fan that CWD uses as well.
ALL WORKS WELL. I know now that the problem all along was the #10 original wire was just too small to let the 12v refigerator function. This is what Vic and others told me three years ago! Originally, I took Fourwheel advice and used #10 because that is what they used when installing the RM2193.
I Just returned from a camping trip in 90 degree weather and refrigerator temperature held at 40 degrees (and more) below ambient, and house battery kept at full charge with six hours time each way on freeway and mountain back roads. After five years I've got a refigerator that works well in all three modes!
Many, many thanks to Vic, CWD and others who commented on this post.
TDF