OttoRogers
For some reason it wont let me "quote" you...
I have the 2.5" OME. Even before I added my leer top and decked system, the truck rode 100x better than stock, felt like a luxury car on the freeway and nice and stable but not harsh on dirt roads.
When I added the Leer top and decked system I added the OME add a leaf. Amazing.
Stock I felt it VERY mushy and swayed a lot even stock.
Might be worth checking out. Just my .02
Its tough to find a happy medium.
I could be wrong, but I don't think youre going to be able to compensate for the entire weight of that camper with just the airbags.
My .02
FYI, I've built many Toyotas and used to be a tech editor for Toyota trails, I am fairly suspension savy and do pretty good dialing in all my friends trucks.
Happy to help if you have any questions.